I too wish H would move far away so I don't have to hear about OW or see H and keep ripping open the wounds from his leaving us.
HOW do they justify doing this?
DD 10 goes to school with a girl whose parents divorced about 3 years ago, when the WH knocked up OW, who was also married at the time. I'm friendly with wife #1 and met wife #2 when the girls were at a slumber party together. Wife #2 is an EXACT REPLICA of #1, less 20 lbs and 5 years. I was flabbergasted. I instantly hated WS on the spot, knowing how much he'd hurt my friend just to get a younger, thinner version of her. How callous was that?