That's a tough call. I think it depends on the situation. If you think H, on his own account, asked to go and actually wanted to do something with S, then maybe just let it go and not make a big deal about it. But if you think it's just MIL and FIL pushing H or guilting H into going, then that might be good to stand your ground. If it's the first, you want to encourage that kind of behavior. Yes, he should be more consistant with S, but he has to start somewhere. If it's the second, he's definitely not showing progress and he does not deserve that time with S. What's your take of the situation?
With the mail, you are doing the right thing. He knows where it is at and can pick it up anytime, so if his license falls thru or something else, it will be a harsh lesson in reality, but one that would be of his own doing. You can only play "mother" or "mailman" for so long. I think it is so great that you have gained control. It seems like he has strung you along by keeping some control over you for so long, so I'm sure he's probably pretty flustered by not being able to play you to his whims. Keep it up! At the very least, this is good for your own well-being!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
