You have the best of the best posting to you here and they speak real, hard, honest, sweet truth.
This isn't easy. And I don't mean the "working on your marriage" part - I mean the "working on you" part. Don't beat yourself up, this takes TIME and the journey starts and stops many times while you build momentum. Grit is right ... all the stages of the process are necessary for the LBS to move into the light ... and they happen faster for some than others.
I don't know if you've read my thread or not, but if you're looking for a good way to kill some time (ok, ok .... I'm long winded, a LOT of time) then click on the links in my signature and have a read through.
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
What you have chosen is part of YOU and your character. So what began out of a search for answers for why and what is wrong with you. Out of hurt for what someone did to you...
You see it all has to do with who YOU are. The best part of who YOU are and then...
It is no longer about what THEY choose or why.
It is about YOU.
^^^ yep ... there's the money shot ...
To steal a quote from Coach .... You can handle it ...
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
