My exH has a very easy time detaching. my therapist and I have discussed this, she never met him, but gets the picture over the last year and a half. When he has ot deal with things, emotions, he detaches. Very easily. He does it with everyone and everything his whole life, that's why he is just fine. he doesn't deal with emotions at all. ANd he always has a backup woman that fills the void. WHo knows what really goes on inside these guys heads. I have been trying to figure out the heartless things he does and says, but I am done trying, because i will never be in his level of emotional detachment, and for that I am actually thankful
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Gabbysmom, I guess someone who doesn't deal with emotions AT ALL would be very good at ripping the wedding photos off the wall as soon as he drops the bomb! Seriously...I am so so sorry you had to experience this.
Interesting if he always has a backup woman...so much for the longevity of his "marriage" to OW!
Did you have any hints of his emotional detachment issues throughout your relationship? Is he a con man or something?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
