Thanks 8. For the record, I think we are both off our nut. I will reply to your post when I have more time to get caught up on your thread.

Regarding your question: I feel pretty good right now but I am trying to be cautious. She seems like a different person, like her old self. Its tempting just to bury this and move on (something she suggested) but I know that would be ill-advised.

My trust level is at zero right now so, I need to see her make a huge effort in this area. Also, she still has not "officially" dropped the divorce. I need to see something from a lawyer stating that this divorce-thing is dead.

This is the kind of stuff I will talk to my counselor about.

Last edited by mrbt; 06/28/10 10:16 PM.

Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010