Wow. I just read about the protection phase and I gotta say...
All the things in there that she said WILL happen if you don't do this happened to me.
After 6 months of trying to DB, and keeping in contact, I now have 0 respect for my wife and no real desire to ever be with her again, and I'm not really that angry anymore, and I don't hate her but staying in her life while she had a boyfriend and treated me like crap just ruined it for me.
