mrbt, I've been thinking and wondering about you. I'm so glad you posted today.
Great minds think alike, you know? I JUST posted on my thread a question about whether I'm optimistic or crazy. I honestly don't know the answer to that.
Here's the big question--how do you feel about HER right now? She's being sweet toward you, which is nice. It's also nice that she's promised to never cheat again. But how do YOU feel? And do you believe her?
I'm so glad you have your counselor. I'd love to know what you learn about how to approach your W.
Have a good evening! Have a glass of wine and RELAX.