Its been about three weeks since catching wife with the OM. We still have not had an in depth discussion about what happened. I wanted to give myself time get over the initial shock.
Shortly after "the incident" wife and I attended an out of town wedding together. This was very surreal for me. Immediately following the wedding I stayed out of town (for work) for an additional week. Now we are both home together and things have been okay. Wife has been very sweet and has proclaimed "I will never cheat again."
I met with my counselor several days ago and explained what happened. In my next session we will talk about how to approach the wife - what to say, etc.
As I said, things feel "okay" between us now. Its almost as if getting the secret out in open has changed things. However, not talking about it prevents us from truly moving on. I am proceeding with caution from here.
Last edited by mrbt; 06/28/1010:02 PM.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
