Now she's seen me for a longer period of time as a more positive, fun and dedicated H and F. She also sees how attached the children are to me and how much I am to them. She went almost a week of being generally positive and then the darkness crept in this weekend. My T believe she is frustrated because she is even more confused. It seemed easy a few weeks/months ago, and now it's not. She has been talking and talking about S, telling other therapists that she doesn't want to work on the M, texting me to ask to have an "important" conversation at night, and yet there is still no action.
I agree with that. So make sure you don't give your wife ammo to validate her negative feelings.
If you get dirt kicked in your face then bring it up. Call out behavior that is disrespectful and handle in a mature way.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
