Stuck in my situation, Need some Advice

[KarenR]

I am sorry you are going through this.
It definitely sounds like alot of miscommunication going on. It is easy to do! Many traditional marriage therapists don't address better ways to get through to your spouse. DB coaches give you very specific advice on how to interact in a way that is more likely to get a positive reponse. If you haven't talked to a coach yet, I suggest you look into it. Thousands of individuals have benefited from their expertise.
Also, for future posts, you may get more community response if you the post is brief. Best of luck to you.