Yes TWolf, this has been suggested to me many times. THe DB coach said otherwise. I also do not wish to have my little boy's world turned upside down any more than it has been so when H comes to sleep here I am glad. Although I do not wish for him to sleep here, I do prefer S does his nighttime routine at home for his security.
I do need to show more moving on behavior. H knows I"ve been trying to reconsile the past year. I have been trying to be a friend but this is difficult with the above mentioned treatment. And going dark feels like giving up. I'm not saying you aren't right. I'm saying I'm sad and confused.
For a long time I was hesitant to show I was moving on because I wanted to show I was dedicated to righting my wrongs and fixing my M.
