Originally Posted By: Mach
Especially friends, family, and well wishers from the Bitter committee...


And this ain't no itty bitty committee...

Most people mean well when they tell you what to do or offer advice.

AND

Originally Posted By: Mach
IF you choose this route, no one would question it at all


Because this is what most people would do.

You are asking the right questions and you WILL find your answers.

Let me share something with you.

My Mom has actually said to me it was a mistake that I married my W.

I say: IT WAS NOT A MISTAKE THAT I MARRIED W.

I said this at the beginning of my journey because I was defensive and resentful.

I can say this now because I KNOW IT.

I know it like it is part of me.

I know it becuase it is my soul.

I no longer have self doubt about my choices.

See the difference? Same words. Said at different points in my journey.

Now I own these words. They are MINE.

I stand for ME.

Your H has done some things to hurt you.

He will continue to do things to hurt you.

You will continue to be affected by these things until you decide not to.

It IS that simple.

He has to get to the man you may eventually want to be with again by himself.

So let him.

You have an opportunity if you wish to take it.

To make a u-turn on the road to Bitterville and

Leave all the folks cheering you on down that road and

Take your own road.

Look I am going to go out on a limb here and actually give you a money back guarantee...

I Truegritter, guarantee Irish she will not regret taking her own road,

Not one bit.

I guarantee it.

And this is the prize

Originally Posted By: Mach
The ability to listen, and love with your whole heart.


I got your message Mach wink I mean I GOT it.

Thanks.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am