Is it normal for a guy to want to have sex with his W?
Yup.
Is normal for you to want and need that in your M?
Yup.
This isn't about sex and desire nlg this is about how she feels about her relationship with you IMO.
You fix that FIRST then the rest...
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hardest thing for me is knowing that she had desire for someone else but doesn’t have it for me
Symptom of the problem my friend. NOT the problem.
That all sounds well and good, T.G., but you have a cart-and-the-horse problem here. His wife isn't GOING to regain her desire for her husband so long as she's intentionally getting her brain washed in PEAs from contact with her ex-H and other men like her "ex-flame" on FB. She's going to remain "blocked" to him. If you doubt this, just ask the FWAWs on these forums.
This is why "no-contact and full transparency" is a MUST in post-infidelity situations. Because it's a physiological fact that these kinds of contacts are going to be HUGE OBSTACLES for her ever regaining those "in looove" feelings for NLG again.
