yup... it may be OW telling him to do this to keep you quiet...
Re your email you sent earlier you just tell him your FT told you otherwise..and I think you konw what you told him earlier was a bad idea, it signs off on the cheating
It's NOT on him..its on the WHOLE FAMILY...
Well, he also tends to talk very business like about most things when he's at the office, actually. I don't know. I don't know why anyone would need to keep me quiet - I've been quiet as a church mouse! lol
In the email I told him that inappropriate relationships of any kind were destructive to both our marriage and our family... I didn't say that "you can do whatever....I don't care." Does that make sense?
Anyway, I guess I really need to make sure I have a good therapist to work worth here...so getting on that.