I don't know if they are placating us, but my WH was also keeping the tiniest glimmer of hope open for the future. The very rare comment like "we never know what is going to happen".
it's because there is a tiny fear in their minds that dont know for sure... how can you make such rash decisions so quickly, huge decisions nonetheless!
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so best not to put too much value on that stuff.
I'm not... dont want to hear the words... need to see him bending over backwards for me to take him back! I love my H (pre alien state of mind) and would take him back in a heart beat, but i do have my short and sweet list and he will have to work hard to be back as my H in my life. So words are not enough!
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My WH admitted that he thought having kids might change him and us, make us happier.
So sad i asked H if this was the case with him, he says no, but how am i to believe anything he says or ever said!
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Great all the furniture has arrvied. You are going to be a lovely mum, BD, I can sense it. And your boy is going to have an incredible extended family, by the sounds of it. No matter what happens, I know you are going to be fine. You are passionate and have lots of love to give...good things will come your way. I hope it's your WH, but if not, it's HIS loss.
i asked H if this was the case with him, he says no, but how am i to believe anything he says or ever said!
