Newmama, you came out the other side of handing over his belongings with dignity. I had similar thoughts when sorting through my WHs things..will he remember that we bought this when we were on holidays in X? Will he re-read these old letters from me and miss what we shared?

Also Awst and Gabbysmom's posts choked me up because I feel exactly the same..how do you detach when you are linked by the most precious thing in your life - your child.
Makes me think it would be better if WH left for Europe and we never saw him again. I think I would rather that.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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