Newmama, you came out the other side of handing over his belongings with dignity. I had similar thoughts when sorting through my WHs things..will he remember that we bought this when we were on holidays in X? Will he re-read these old letters from me and miss what we shared?
Also Awst and Gabbysmom's posts choked me up because I feel exactly the same..how do you detach when you are linked by the most precious thing in your life - your child. Makes me think it would be better if WH left for Europe and we never saw him again. I think I would rather that.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369