WHen your wife comes back from an affair you THANK GOD your efforts worked and they love their family and you REBUILD.. you don't run off for a year to cheat and waste your child's life acting like a miserable a$$... You act like a grown up and REPAIR the damage...
Are you gonna do this too when your wife comes back man? Neglect your son 6 days a week for a year and wave a revenge affair in your families face? Hurl abuse at a woman who came BACK to you and who is making you dinner each week trying to rebuild a family?