Sorry to post again everyone, and maybe this is obvious to everyone but me, but specifically, what do I do tonight if she starts asking me about the things in her note?

Say nothing?

Say I accept that she wants the M to be over and it is time to move on. I am done with it?

She is saddened and only wants to be happy? I want us to be happy as a family?

What are OM's W's motives? To find the truth?

I am sorry you are so desperate. I am not desperate, I am moving on and this has nothing to do with payback?

Thanks!