Hmmm...interesting phone conversation with H just now. He called to ask about our son's plans and then asked if I was going to my counseling appt - and that I should just set something up for him so he can "go talk to these people and see what they suggest we do." I told him I would send him some information but he said for me to go ahead and set it up. Hmmm.... I guess I will! He sounded very business like about it all but I guess it's at least good that he is thinking about it all. The weird thing is, he is acting like he wants a decision on this whole "should we stay together thing" right away. ???