I'm no expert on this, but I think you are threadjacking on LFA's thread.
Trying going to the For Newcomers Forum, and start a thread. If you start your own new posts with your own title (like Looking at a D; or One Day at a Time ) or whatever seems to sum up your own most important question--you will then have your own thread that people can reply to, and you can keep track of your own posts and the support you get.
I think that will work better for you for getting the help and support you need!
I'm sorry you are here, but you will find lots of good help here.
