(USUALLY)The person the MLCer is boiking is in some respect worse off then they are. They might be good looking, but that isn't always the case. Something is (usually) broken inside, and the MLC can be with them, their new found long lost soulmate ( ) to FIX them...since they haven't yet figured out that they need to fix themselves
^^^ Yep. Dead on.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc