Say you went on a vacation and the lane crashed and burned horribly but you both suvrived with what you had in your possesion, pretty much nothing. After several weeks of being at home and trying to clear your mind of the tragic incodent, the airline calls and says "Mr. Any Chance, this Slam to the Ground Airlines calling, we have recovered your bags from the wreck, they are fairly charred and torn, shall we forward them on to you?".
I don't know about you, but I'd tell em to forget it. No?
When you go to MC this week, I would bring these issues of trust in each other and where the relationship has been in the past up for discussion. You both need closure. And that closure is what will set you both free from that charred up baggage.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11