I started this journey several months ago when I did what we all do ... I typed "save my marriage" into a search engine and found DB. My life changed.
I started in "New Comers" and used my time over there to read MWD's books and wrap my head around doing 180s, Acting As If and GALing.
I read and I read and I read.
I stood for my husband, I stood for my marriage.
Then I made the jump over here and my life changed again.
Slowly. Painfully. I started to REALLY look at who I am, who I want to be, what I want, where I come from, where I'm going ...
I finally gave myself up to the process. I've fought demons and monsters and I've lost many battles, and I have many more to fight. But I'm winning the war.
I am now free. Free to choose the life I want. Free to make mistakes. Free to grow and learn and live. Free to own my successes and my failures. Free to love unconditionally and be loved in return. Free to be ME, whoever that turns out to be.
