Here is a note my wife is typing me right now (eblaster). What to make of it? I will not respond. Do I talk to her about it tonight or just remain detached?
She needs you to back off and get-a-life. Keep getting in her face and talking about how great you think the relationship was or could be. and how much you love her and can make changes and how she is making a mistake,
and you will end up be known as the "idiot ex-husband that didn't get a clue and screwed up when he might of had a chance."
How are you accomplishing detachment?
I haven't told her I loved her or been in her face about the relationship since at all she told me she was going to file for D on June 5th. I did accept and validate one of her concerns about me being selfish recently, but I only told her I was willing to work on the problems if she changed her mind, but that I appreciated the advice for my own self-growth.
I am only getting in her face about the OM, which I cannot really prove, but there are too many coincidences for it not to be going on.
