Piano, many many congratulations for your daughter! She must be almost a month old now!

It's great to see your goals and that you are advancing towards a stronger you! It's such a difficult process, but you are moving in the right direction.

On your previous thread you were mentioning that you are puzzled that compared to other spouses yours has never said mean things. Neither has mine. He never says anything openly angry or any bad words. It makes it so much more difficult for me to be angry with him. Mine is in MLC (by his own admission, and by my assesment as well). Do you think the same about your H?

I'm not sure if you posted the details of the separation agreement with your H (maybe I haven't read carefully). You mentioned on my thread that he also did not think he would have to give you money. How did that go? Did you hire a lawyer?

I agree with newmama, seeing red and babydoll that a letter from the FIL to H might have some impact. Maybe you could tactfully suggest it?

Hugs to you and your baby!