Dan, She is involved with another man. Let her go. Let them have each other. Pack her up and move her OUT. Time for her to go.
You're hurt and who wouldn't be but I promise you Dan, when you look back on this time in your life, you'll want to feel proud of how you handled yourself - like a man, not like a boy. Right now, you are acting like a boy who can't live without this cake-eating girl. She is not acting like a woman, btw. More like a teenager lying to her daddy and hiding herself. Women don't do that - girls do. As long as you put up with it, she'll do it.
Step up. Be a man.
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