I think this is my home for the next 6 months...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I am not a DB success in the terms that I got my H back & outlasted his MLC.

First off you are feeling a little sorry for yourself, so...I'll go lightly.

The goal...if you wanted to be married...and all the newbies do...admit it newbies! Admit it! is to be: Married.

Eveyone here...everyone, typed in: Save my Marriage on a search engine and found themselves here.

So the goal in MLC to be married is outlast their marriage.

But that was NEVER the definition of success.

Becoming a better person IS the deffinition of success.


IF my MLC wife came back to the same idiot self serving man-child I had been? Would THAT have been a success? First off...I would NOT have been capable of making it through pie(R)cing so that marriage with that 'old' Jack would have been doomed.

I CHOOSE to take my wife back and work through it becuase of the success 'I' had become.

Understand?

So you get a pass on the whole you aren't a success at DBing Shel, and I'm going to call you Shel...because you are thinking the old way with that.