Well, I certainly am getting an education from checking out different resources. It's enough to make your head spin! However, I will say - better than years ago when there was no internet and you felt totally isolated and didn't know where to turn to get help for such issues. So far I've looked at all of the following to various degrees:

1. James Dobson's book - Love Must be Tough (GREAT read as I've mentioned, and I feel probably the one to start this whole philosophy of being able to fight back as the LBS.)

2. Read DR and been on the boards here (obviously)

3. Checked out the Larry guy's website (www.stopyourdivorcein4weeks.com) but can't afford that program at the moment. Looks good, however.

4. Checked out the Mort Fertel site (www.marriagemax.com) and requested info. I will probably order this program since it's not that much.

5. Signed up on the mid life club boards

6. Been to IC

7. Planning to attend (as long as H doesn't back off) this weekend thing and checking out the other one Lotus suggested.

I feel a bit of information overload coming on but I guess the more info, the better, right?! Well, as long as it's good info.