Allen thanks for the followup. I do realize that emotions are a major reason she started to lose attraction, and it something I am working on. I dont want to be a hothead nor controlling, or even to get mad and not use logic in my situation.
Everyone is saying drop the rope etc.. Dont worry busting it, she is nuts. I know that i do need to let go, but how do I non-chalantly attack this affair? Its my life and well, id like to fight for my marriage whatever way seems fit, and also make sure my DD 1 is protected.
DD1 of course is my main focus and will continue to be. I still havent gone down to file a new complaint, and well maybe Ill just go the easy route and let CPS know about OM being around during visits as this would likely not result in any jail time or court appearances for her other then the family court case.
In my situation I know protecting DD1 is 1st. GAL and 180 second, fixing my issues third. So, if it were up to you how would ya handle things moving forward.
I read the article from SYM the PDF you posted and well the LRT letter seemed like a good thing and something Id consider sending after no-contact is dropped.
Opinions?
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
