The MC was reccomended through my IC. He said that when a couple seperates it's completely normal that R are started outside of the marriage. I don't know if I misunderstood him or what but he didn't seem concerned about her "friend".

She keeps telling me that she has always been able to communicate with men opposed to women. She has a couple girlfriends but apparently they don't listen like OM.

This is a dealbreaker and the MC suggested a seperation which now I'm seeing may be a good idea. I'm in a position to purchase the home, if she can't quit OM(friend)then I'll have to move forward without her.

M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA