Part of this wayward syndrome just is erratic mood swings.. their emotions are in flux much like a teenager... this means you are giong to just get a lot of erratic behaviour to match their mood swings...
I don't reccomend too much analysis due to this fact.. if you see a consistent pattern like hiim taking the cell phone into the shower with him THAT is significant.. but if he keeps flip floping on actions that is more likley just his erratic mood swings and emotions in flux... nothing too significant...
Consistent behaviour is what you want to analyze becuase its a pattern...
If you notice his moods change regularly due to certain stimuli again that could be something, but right now I don't think you can pin too much on this...
If you read the MLC article i sent you should understand what I mean I think... it was written as a joke, but the content is VERY ACCURATE.. its just written in an amusing way is all... I actually found the sarcastic tone amusing... a refreshing change from the usual texts on the subject
Re MLC, I don't put much stock in that.. to my mind this is just wayward syndrome, meaning the peaking of dissatisfaction with marriage... many spouses experience this in teh lifetime of their mariage and they wrestle with ways to cope... DR more or less addresses a lot of this already...
The point of contention I have with DR is infideility.. To my mind its an addiction and should be handled as such... and DR is NOT in agreement with that point...
The cell phone in the bathroom is far more interesting.. QS put up a good post on how to collect intel as well today, you may find it very helpful
