Starting to think my WH is somewhat abusive. I think he likes that I am crying over him. How is it that he left and yet he still WONT GO AWAY!!! [quote]
I know! It is not considerate of your feelings at all. It could be borderline abusive.
[quote] H said today that when he dropped the bomb, he not only felt relieved but his feelings became validated. He left 9 days later. But in between BS'd me to death telling me he wanted to try therapy and wrote me a card saying how we have what it takes to get through it and "you're my first, my last, my everything". Today he said once he got it out in the open, he realized he didnt have anything left for me.
And yet less than 2 months before he wanted to start a family with me... i mentioned this and he said "I know". Which means what exactly?
Sounds like my WH too! He 'knows' none of it makes sense, but can't we still be friends?
I don't know about our WHs, BD. No specific OW, wants to be with us (usually) at the moment, but doesn't want to commit for the future. Pretty crappy.
