well something tells me that 5 years down the line it is absolutely impossible to ever do anything that pleases the ex, I just dont know why I bother. Because I am a nice and polite person I texted the ex just to say i will be taking son to visit the graves of ex's father and grandma, as it is sons great grandma and grandad, I merely asked if it was okay with him if I laid a few flowers on the graves, I received a one word answer of "yep", go figure ex I give up dont even know why I asked or why I try and be nice, no more totally give up on this guy, what a waste of a good man.
