Hey, thanks for your thoughts guys.

BD- jealous of the baby, acting out like a child, I'd say YES! Thanks for reminding me of that.

And P, I thought of that. But it's really frustrating! I don't want him to think that I'll just take whatever he wants to give me. Well, I guess I will, but not for very long. If that makes sense.

BD, about him staying over. It's GREAT. Except I develop expectations and get mad when he hints around staying over and then disappears. So it's a mixed bag.

All right guys, I thought of step 2: a visitation plan. I guess I got so tired, I forgot about this!

So he texted me this morning to ask how she slept. EYEROLL. I haven't written back and I'm thinking of sending an email with a visitation proposal and then a line at the end saying that she slept fine. He needs to know that I was offended about yesterday's disappearance. Even though I won't go overboard and tell him off or anything. smile

K, we'll see how it goes! And maybe I'll put off that 'name and influence' convo until the time feels right. Ciao!