My husband and I had a very good weekend, filled with hanging out with the kids, friends and spending some quality alone time together. It was one of the best weekends we've had in months. There was no pressure, no talk of the relationship, just "being." Sometimes I think I try too hard and over-analyze his every move or even lack of move, therefore causing an argument and for him to pull away (even when the OW isn't in the picture). I think he got freaked out when I started pushing him for information on what he had done at home when I was out of town, and he pulled away. I think I need to stop trying so hard and focus on just enjoying the time we are together. The constant snooping around in his business is exhausting and constantly makes my stomach hurt. I feel like I need to give him some time to prove himself without me constantly being on his back to prove himself.
