Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[The Wifey]

ssmguy,

Ok, I'll bite. Desire is an on and off thing and has been for me since I had my son. (He's 21) I'm peri-menopausal and I guess at 43 I qualify as middle aged.

I would have times when I had desire and then periods of time that it didn't cross my mind. And it was influenced by the interaction with my H. If we'd had a good day I'd be more likely to want to ML than if we'd had an argument 20 minutes before. Also, if he'd acted like I was part of the woodwork until 10 minutes before bed it just wasn't happening.

My H and I have been separated 2 years. We are back in the same house but not in the same bed. Its been 2 years in July since we ML, partly because he has ED and hasn't been to the Doc, and a lot because of our relationship.

My Doc put me on Welbutrin. As it turns out, that ramps up a woman's sex drive. No sex + high drive + living in the same house but not the same bed = frustration and time spent with BOB.

I can't address the not having seen a woman have an orgasm. I've never had that problem, thankfully.

I don't know if that answered your inquiry or not. But it is my perspective on women and daily sex. Even at my highest drive I have never had daily sex or needed that.