Still not sure what is going on with her but I don't over react to these anymore. Still a bit angry that OM is still in the picture, not sure how much more I can take.........
It's not difficult to figure out, FFH. Like the overwhelming majority of infidelity cases, your wife is trying to keep both options open. Two plates spinning on her sticks.
You've indicated the continued contact with OM is a dealbreaker, right? What are you going to do?
btw, your marriage counselor should lose their license for MALPRACTICE!