I dont think we are incompatible, I havnt felt that for 12 years? And if he was feeling it he did a good job of hiding it
He didn't hide it, you were compatable. At some point it shifted and he may even have thought he was telling you in some way.
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I think I should move onto the Newcomers forum section, as I'm not 100% sure this is MLC, although I was convinced to start - it might have been wishful thinking omn my part - I'm confused about it now becasue H seems happier now (3 months seperated), than hes been in 2 years I wish it was an act, but its a good one if it is.
Sweetie, I'm not sure my H is MLC or not either. Never was. TG is right, it doesn't matter. We want a diagnosis so that we can feel like there is hope of a cure. There is always hope.
The tools you get and the prodding to be your best self is what matters. I still read all over the board and post here and there where I have something to offer or a question.
Emotional? He11, the joke at my house is that I cry at the drop of a kleenex. My D18 insisted on showing me a video of Pink's "I Don't Believe You" yesterday with my H standing there. I had to walk away and gather myself before coming back. You do the best you can and when you know better, you do better (mostly).
No, it isn't natural to see them "happy" without us. The thing is, you don't really know if he is or not. It could be he just feels the pressure is off.
