Thanks for the 2x4, Truegritter...really agree with much of your insights that my "agenda" is being pushed here (btw, she totally will not go to IC/MC - with her OCD/ADHD, she really works on 1 "track", and that track right now is focused on her job, and a little bit on me).
Am going to take some time for your points to sink in, TG...have tried to really get her to say what she wants but doesn't really have much to say other than "to be happy" or something general (hence why i wanted to go to MC w/ her, to try and pull some of this out of her that for whatever reason she can't articulate with me)).
