The exposure and family protection routes here more recently...
Are you in a position to conclude if the first or secodn approach is more effective for your situation?
I am just reviewing another visitor's thread who is unsure of this but has been trying LRT for a year now... making dinner for her H who's cheating on her much like your wife is, trying to get the public to accept the cheating etc...
Her H visits one day a week, eats dinner with her and their son and hurls abuse at her, stays the night and then leaves to cheat for the next whole week and teh cycle starts over...
I am advocating to NOT make dinner, NOT do nice things and to EXPOSE teh affair.. But she's not sure about this approach... I thought you may be in a position to comment...