think I should move onto the Newcomers forum section, as I'm not 100% sure this is MLC, although I was convinced to start
I know there is a natural tendency to try to link your sitch to a diagnosis of sorts -MLC or Not.
I would submit, it doesn't matter Pie.
Your approach to this is the same. I have already explained what I believe is the major difference in the advice you get here and (most) of the advice you get in Newcomers.
It is really tactics (newcomers) vs long term, sustained growth we talk about here.
The focus on YOU part is what I refer to.
Most MLCers do behave and react differently to the "tactics"
I can only share as it was described to me when I came here from newcomers.
This is the big leagues. Tactics may achieve short term results BUT unless there is REAL change and growth what have you really gained?
As Grace pointed out what is your definition of success?
To get your H to come back?
Or
Originally Posted By: pie
I want to be the bigger person
????
That is the work we do here.
There are some great people posting over there(newcomers) Pie.
It has been my experience and is my opinion that you will find the best environment HERE if your goal is the latter of the two I have suggested above.
The focus on YOU is OUR focus.
If you see how long the people here have invested THEIR time to help complete strangers ????
There is a genuine desire to help people learn and grow.
Me? I have learned that once you grow and understand, you have no other choice than to help others get there.
It is THAT important to you when you know that truth.
Just sayin...
I hope you stay.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
