TWolf, you need to trust the process... Keep your face out in public.. make sure everyone knows where you stand and what OM is doing... No one likes to be the town creep... And no woman I know wants to be associated with the town creep...
If OM ends up looking like the town creep the affair won't last long term...
Don't get fixated on one phone call.. You can't analyze single events... only patterns of repeated events...
Keep holding onto your position... You're doing well...
If you can put more pressure on the OM and the affair then do that....
