Anger has done nothing but good things in my sitch. It is "riteous anger" and there is a difference.
Riteous anger is going to see the abuse they are heaping on innocent children.
Riteous anger is going to tell you YOU are not deserving of this.
Riteous anger is going to move you away from the abuse. You and your kids are being treated terribly. It will open your eyes to this fact. Being nice to her is a disservice to your children. It is teaching them they are not worth you standing up for them.
I have tried to think of ways to tell you that you are contributing to the abuse of children by treating their abuser kindly, but I didn't know how. I know you love them. I know it's not because you are doing it consciously. But you are modeling a very unhealthy man along with your unhealthy W.
I hope today was Ok to tell you this. Have a wonderful 4th. And along with the fireworks, remember that riteous anger got this country away from the tyranny and made it strong.
