I was considering this issue a LOT too at certain points in time.
From what I understand, there are limited reasons why a M can be annulled, and one that is often used is linked in some way to "with full consent and knowledge" of both spouses. So I'd guess if it can be accepted that that was an absence of total consent and/or knowledge of circumstances, the M can be deemed annulled.
My pastor however, was rather blunt and very practical . He made it clear annulment was not a tool of convenience. And as he put it: "what are you here for? strength to forgive? spiritual help? comfort? validation that your wife was wrong? You know what the right decision is, and what is being asked of you, difficult though it may be. Be a man and take that path. If your W chooses to stray thereafter, you would have sincerely done what you could. But stop feeling sorry for yourself." Umm I felt rather hard done by at that time I must say!
Sorry to go OT ...
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
. He made it clear annulment was not a tool of convenience. And as he put it: "what are you here for? strength to forgive? spiritual help? comfort? validation that your wife was wrong? You know what the right decision is, and what is being asked of you, difficult though it may be. Be a man and take that path. If your W chooses to stray thereafter, you would have sincerely done what you could. But stop feeling sorry for yourself." Umm I felt rather hard done by at that time I must say!
