Interesting. I am not sure of this b/c I took some Canon law classes at the Catholic Law school I attended and some of these things seem more rigid than are practiced.
My brother & his wife are both in their 2nd marriages and each has 3 kids from those prior M's, neither got annulments of their first M's. But they had a full mass at their Catholic wedding. I wonder now about their first m's, guessing neither took place in a Catholic church...Of course you could marry outside the Church, which I assume you're not okay with?
But on another note, why do you think the marriage was never valid? ( Just curious and hey, if it's an off limits topic, that's cool) (( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016