Still chipping away at EA

[elvencat]

Ok, guys.. here's the No Contact letter re-written just slightly to sound a little more like me... How does it sound now?

Dear H,

I love you and am committed to you and our family we created together. I am willing to do my part to work through the hardships our marriage has endured and come out the other side better than we have been before. However, I will not do so at the expense of my own personal integrity or my family's emotional well-being. I want a marriage and family that will bring us enjoyment, in a mutually healthy and committed way.

Your affair with OW is so painful for me that it is destroying the love and respect I have felt for you for many years. It is destructive to me, our daughter and our friends and family. In order to protect myself and our daughter from the pain of your affair I have decided to step away from the chaos.

Please find attached to this email a temporary separation agreement. Review this agreement and respond with any questions or comments via return email.

Please respect my wish for no contact (other than email or text when necessary) for as long as you are involved in your affair. When your affair is ended, and you are ready to begin constructively working toward rebuilding our family, you may contact me and I will see how I feel about things at that time.

-elvencat