So I got bold tonight and just walked into W's room and found the phone. Walked out and looked at it. All deleted, texts, calls, everything as usual. Then, I get a text from OM's wife. It seems he not only went to the casino last night, but also to Uncle Mike's bar, which is where he and my W have met each other before. Her girlfriend saw him there, but he neglected to tell his wife. So I wake up my W and ask her where she and Debbie went last night. She is all disoriented and asks what is going on and why am I in her room. I ask again where she went and she sees my phone and asks what is that. I say, my phone. She asks what is on it. I am using it for a light and I say a picture of me. Where did you go last night? Uncle Mikes? She says no, so I ask again. She says none of your business. I say Jim (OM) went to Uncle Mike's and so did you. And as long as we are married, it is my business. I left and she went back to sleep.
She had to be there with him, right? I do know that she actually did talk to Debbie about going out, so I would assume they were together, at least for part of the night, but I don't know how late.
I know this is hardly detaching, but I really do want to bust her again with OM. Texted OM's W back and asked what time the friend saw him there and if he was with an ultra skinny blonde woman. Won't hear from her until tomorrow. Should be a fun morning tomorrow. Maybe this will help me detach. Thinking about getting a GPS for her car, but that doesn't qualify as detaching either.
