what is up with your WH and his 'douchey-ness'! Yes, you hould say something to him! Let him know that this time in your life is about your D and not him and he needs to get his act together and be supportive as a father regardless of what he is feeling and going through!
Caught up with an old HS friend over FB and she is going through a D, i kind of think she is okay w/ it... said he H chose his mom over her? Strange, but anyway, she said he H was so jealous of her baby when he was born. And it caused a lot of arguments... sorry for the story telling, but your posts made me think your WH is almost acting out like a child, because this life situation is not about him? And he doesnt know how to react.
I do hope you say something, be yourself and be honest. Just be sure to do that thing where you dont point the finger and say You, You, You, and instead express your feelings... i felt upset that you didnt come by to help out, etc. it hurts me to see you drinking, i feel like you are trying to hide your pain, or whatever... but say how you feel. Your WH was showing good signs of at least wanting to be in your D's life and clearly enjoyed hanging out with you too watching movies etc. Who knows what triggered his sadness and distance and got to him...
Dont you just wish you could crawl in their ear, into their brains and see what they are thinking! and then of course changing their thoughts to miss us and love us and want to come back home
