Here's my honest take on where a good place to be emotionally when things like vase smashing and talk of not being able to forgive you happen:
1. Your first thought is, "I don't care if you cannot forgive me because I am changing, and I have forgiven myself, and at least I wasn't cheating and blaming you for doing it".
2. Your first words are, "If you are going to act like this, then you are right: this isn't going to work".
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-