Should I write her an email or letter giving the WAW speech?
What for?
The situation has spun completely out of control, and so now you want to control it?
Motives are as important as actions in this case. I know you want to save your M, but you aren't going to do it by controlling anything but yourself.
Timing and being genuine are important.
The next time you are being threatened if you can say "I have had enough" and mean it while still being open to things improving, then that's different.
You are coming on here, you are insecure, and you are just a tad bit desperate sounding in your posts right now. I am thinking that is the wrong state of mind to make a stand.
Well because it was just suggested that I had the "WAW speech" and was provided a script so I wanted to know the opinion of that same poster if he thinks writing/typing it would be as effective as saying it due to my W not wanting to hear me talk about our R.
I have told W "I had enough" or that "I am tired of you disrespecting me" and "I won't be a doormat" W just flips it around on me and bring up 10 years.
Yes I admit I do sound desperate and I am sure I come across the same to my W. I had to days of huge R talk mistakes. I am just venting and trying to regroup and go back in DB in a more effective manner.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
